How to get Real Results

“You don’t need a fuc&%ng affirmation, you don’t need a candle, you don’t need anything other than your mind, and I’m going to show you how to use it to get tangible REAL RESULTS.”

I wanted to dedicate a solo episode to talk about my new program REAL RESULTS and also discuss the meaning that I've given to Mentorship after many years of not only mentoring many people, but also being a mentee.

The importance of not skipping the process of unraveling and untangling oneself from childhood wounds, beliefs, and emotions is crucial in order to properly evolve in the journey of healing. Once this is understood and recognized, all that Real Results has to offer becomes available and coherent. There's a misconception that healing work magically eliminates problems. That's not how it functions. Negative thoughts and patterns will come up every now and then, and it's only with discipline and dedication that you'll be able to shift out of it.

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Some of today's HIGHLIGHTS:

(01:31) Intro and full info on Real Results and Past Lives & Money.
(15:35) Understanding the importance of addressing emotions and childhood wounds before moving forward in the process. The Metamorphosis helps you with this.
(20:43) Past the point of acknowledging your emotions: the real meaning of healing and personal growth work.
(24:29) The Gap and how Real Results fills it. The Moment to Moment practice.
(34:03) Past Lives & Money: recognizing archetypal energies.
(35:55) My perspective on Mentorship and all that I’ve learned being on both sides of it.
(50:35) Final words.

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• Join Real Results today and take advantage of the pre-sale pricing. I’ll show you how to take the knowledge and information that you've gotten from the healing work that you've done around your family programming: the mother wound, the father wound, your limiting beliefs, your money beliefs, and apply it to create actual results in your life. I'm going to show you how to shift your energy and perspective in each moment to create the results that you desire. Launches at the beginning of November and it's a 6 week program: 5 of teaching and 1 of Q&A. Bundle it up with Past Lives & Money to save over $1000. 
• Sign up for Past Lives & Money and recognize and alchemize past life wounding so you can grow your business and your life in an exponential way. It's 5 weeks of teaching and includes 1 coaching call, Voxer communication with  group for support and community, Q&A with Alyse, Breathwork + an ample variety of tools. The program launches at the end of September.   
• The Metamorphosis is a $1000 off until this Sunday. If you haven't addressed past wounds and deep emotions yet, I highly recommend you join this one before experiencing the REAL RESULTS program. 

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Transcript

Alyse: This is a misconception that a lot of people have about what it means to do the healing and personal growth work. It doesn't just go away. It's going to continue to come up, but then it's your job to have the wherewithal and the willingness and the dedication and the discipline to shift out of it. And that's when we start to see the results is when you start to change how you're operating based on the knowledge that you received from the deeper work that you did.

Welcome to reclaiming consciousness. My name is Alyse Bacine, spiritual mentor, breathwork practitioner and owner, and CEO of Alyse Breathes. For many years, our consciousness has been hijacked by societal and cultural programming, religion, the media, and familial and ancestral trauma. Right now, during this epic time in history, people are waking up, realizing who they really are and reclaiming the pieces of their consciousness that they unknowingly gave away.

This podcast is an exploration of how so many spectacular humans are leading the way in exiting the matrix and reclaiming who they really are and what they're capable of. In this show, you'll meet exceptional people who are paving the way in raising conscious. And creating a new way of living on this earth.

Get ready to go deep now. Let's dive in.

Hi everyone. I am So excited about this week's episode. I recorded this a few days ago and it just like came running through me and I'm so excited for you to hear it. So running through me. That sounds really funny. It was it came channeling through me. Let's put it that way. Um, so yeah, so this week I'm talking about I have another solo episode where I'm talking about why I created my program Real Results, which I feel like is a so needed in this industry, and it really fills a gap that I was seeing overwhelmingly in this space.

You'll hear me talk about this, but I basically created real results because I was seeing a huge disconnect or gap between people doing a ton of healing and personal growth work, but then not seeing the tangible results in their lives that they actually. desired when they did the healing work, right?

And I think that's for a very specific reason. And it's, um, something that a lot of people have failed to understand that after you do the work, you need to create a practice where you are shifting your mind, your energy, your patterns of thinking. over and over and over again in each moment. And that takes dedication and it takes a decision that you're going to operate differently.

And more than that, it takes radical responsibility. And there are some really key practices that you can do that I'm going to show you. And I'm showing you from not only experience, but like the stuff that I have created for myself that I've done for myself that works. I'm going to show you what I've done to really take the shifts that I've made in my own healing and turn them into real.

results in my life, like my husband and I having a relationship that's better than I could ever imagine, my relationship with money and the money that I'm bringing in being better than I could ever imagine, the way I relate to my kids, the way I show up just In present time, in each moment of my life is completely different.

And this is something that I feel like no one really talks about, where it's like, who are you beyond where you are in these peak experiences, right? Like, when you have these healing experiences, when you're working with your mentor, when you're in a, in a program, when you're with your clients, like. Who are you when you're not in those spaces, right?

Because that really matters. And that's what I'm going to be working with you on in Real Results. I'm going to show you how to apply the information that you have about your healing process, why you do what you do, what your patterns are. I'm going to show you how to apply that to create a different life for yourself, which is what you really want anyway, and for it to just keep getting better and better and better.

So, I'm so excited about it. It starts in the beginning of November, right around my birthday, which is perfect. In the episode, I'm talking about real results and why it's so needed in the space and some of my thoughts around that. And then I'm also just talking about some thoughts that I have around what it means to be in mentorship, what that relationship means, what it means to be a client.

In mentorship, what it means to be a mentor, and like, common things that I see happening for people, and just what my perspectives and thoughts are on that, so that you can elevate the way that you're showing up, so that you can get more out of the spaces that you're in. So, that's what I'm talking about on the podcast today.

So, really exciting stuff that I have coming up. The way that I kind of design programs is I literally see things that come up for almost everybody. Not almost everybody, but everybody who's in the space, right? Whether you are interested in becoming an entrepreneur, you want to move forward with it, you already are, you already have a business, you're moving and grooving, like whatever it is, but you're in this space.

space. Right. If you're listening to this podcast, then you're in this space and this is for you. So I see these really common things coming up for people. And that's why I create programs around them because I'm like, okay, everyone needs to know this information. Everyone needs to know how to move through this stuff.

So Past Lives and Money is no exception. That's my next program that's starting the first week in October. And Past Lives and Money is basically the way it was born is I started seeing these big past life archetypal energies that come up for every woman as she begins to, you know, Discover and express the truth of who she is.

Literally, everyone comes up against these same archetypal energies. And I did a podcast episode about this a couple weeks ago where I shared what these past life energies are. And how they can actually be portals and invitations for growth if we know how to navigate them, and we know how to recognize them, and we know how to work with them.

And that's what I'm going to be teaching in Past Lives and Money. I'm going to show you how to work with these very common things that come up for all women, whether it's the fear of being seen, the fear of people not liking you, the fear of being ostracized, all that witch wound stuff, the fear of everything all of a sudden be taken away or something terrible happening, the fear of never being enough, the fear of like having to prove yourself or having to make people understand who you are and what you're doing.

All of that stuff are these very deep past life. archetypal energies that we've been, they're like living in the collective energy, right? And we unknowingly subscribe to them, and they become blocks for growth, or they become decisions we make about why we can't grow or why we need to move slowly. And it's actually not true.

They don't have to slow you down. They don't have to be things that block you. You can use them as portals to growth if you know how to receive the invitation and how to navigate them and that's what I'm going to show you in past lives and money. It's going to be so good. Everyone is going to skyrocket.

I can't wait for me when I started my business. If I knew What this stuff was, and I knew how to navigate it, I would have moved so much more quickly. Eventually, I figured it out right through myself, my own process and working with so many women and moving through this stuff. Now I'm like, Okay, this is a thing.

Everyone comes up against this. I might as well show everyone at one time how to move through this stuff, right? If you have a business or you're thinking about starting one. You don't want to miss this program because it will help you grow so much faster. I also have the opportunity for you to bundle past lives and money and real results together and save a lot of money.

So if you bundle them both together, it's only 2. 997. And Past Lives and Money right now is 2, 500. So it totally makes sense to do the bundle. I priced it that way because I think they go so well together. And I want everyone to kind of experience both of them because it just so happens that I feel like both of them really complement the other one and they will both be really powerful portals to growth to accelerate your growth.

And for you to really take everything that you know and really move it to the next level with wherever you're at. So you can bundle those two things. We're going to put the link below for you to bundle them together. I highly recommend doing that, especially if you've been thinking about jumping into my world.

This is like the perfect time to do it because we'll get to spend the fall together and you will. Be really like zoom zooming along by the time you get to the end of the year, you'll be like, Oh my gosh, I don't even remember who I was before this, because you will be a different person. If you've been thinking about jumping into my world, this is the perfect time to do it.

Or if you're already in my world, I wouldn't miss these two things are going to be unlike anything I've ever taught. And they're going to be way different than anything I'm teaching in any of my other spaces. Jump in. Also, reach out to me if you have any questions about any of this, about what we're going to be doing.

Both programs are six weeks, and they're going to be teaching plus Q& A. Past Lives and Money does have a once a week Voxer component to it, which is going to be really nice for community support. Yeah, join me. It's going to be so good. And I guarantee you, you guys, no one else is talking about this stuff on the internet.

And this is the stuff that stops people from growing. This is the stuff that makes people feel like, Oh, I need to pause or I need to Cool. you know, take a step back or I need to wait. It's all this stuff. It's not actually the truth because the truth is if you have a vision for yourself, that vision is meant for you.

100 percent guaranteed. Desire is an indicator of where you're meant to go. So trust that desire and join me in real results and past lives of money. Now I will let you get to the episode. I know you're gonna love it. Just a reminder to rate and review the show if you have not yet. We have just gotten some really amazing reviews.

I love you guys so much. I literally cry when I see some of these reviews because I'm like, Oh my God, this is so beautiful. So I love that you love the show. And if you haven't, review the show yet, please do it. And then just send me a screenshot and you'll get 250 off anything else in my world. You can definitely apply that to the past lives and money real results bundle, which would be a great thing to do.

So definitely review the show, send us a screenshot. You can either DM it to me on Instagram at Elise underscore breathes. Or send it to info to leasebreeze. com and Brandy, my assistant, will get you all set up. Oh, one more thing. I totally forgot. The metamorphosis is 1, 000 off until Sunday, the 24th. So you guys, if you have not done the metamorphosis yet, do not sleep on that.

Everyone needs the metamorphosis in order to understand how to navigate growth in your life. If you keep coming up against the same patterns, if you feel stuck, if you're not sure how to navigate relationships in a way that feel good to you, if you just want more, and I know you do, or you wouldn't be listening to this podcast, then the metamorphosis is for you.

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Rate and review the show, screenshot, get a credit. You can also apply that to the metamorphosis too. So, so many great ways to jump into my world. It's so fun right now. I love the fall. It's my birthday, November 5th, Scorpio season coming up. I know we just entered Libra season, but I'm already excited for Scorpio season because I'm a Scorpio and Scorpios are the best.

Anyway. Okay, I'll let you get to the episode. Sending you guys so much love and I will talk to you soon. Enjoy.

Hi, everyone. Welcome back to the show. So I am recording a solo episode today, and there's a few things that I want to talk about. One is the new program that I'm launching, Real Results, and I want to talk about why I'm doing this. It's a really important topic that a lot of people aren't addressing. So I'm going to be addressing that today.

And what the gap is in the personal growth coaching space that I've been seeing for a long time, and how I'm addressing and filling that gap. So I'm going to be talking about that. And then simultaneously, I'm also going to be addressing some of the things that come up in mentorship and also misunderstandings or misapplications that I feel like people have.

In mentorship and what my view is on mentorship and how people can actually start to leverage the spaces they're in the, whether it's a program or working privately with a mentor or being in a mastermind or whatever way that you're getting support, how to actually not only leverage that support, but also some different perspectives that you can take on it that would contribute.

so much more to your growth. That's everything we're going to get into today. So I'm going to start with real results. So I have been noticing for a long time, so obviously you all know, I have been working with women for over three years now, almost four. in helping them heal from trauma, transform their lives and do this really deep inner personal growth work in order to create what they want to create in their lives.

And you know, I think what happens for people is they start to get into this mode of like, okay, well, either like they want to manifest. different things in their lives, or they are like, okay, I know I need to change. I know something needs to shift in my life. I just don't know what it is. And they start going down this path.

And then ultimately, it leads to this place of like deep inner growth, deep transformation, and really calling them forward into becoming the version of themselves that they're meant to be. And in that process, you need to kind of go through this process where you're unraveling and untangling yourself from the stories that you have around who you are, what kind of place the world is, and also the beliefs, patterns, and dynamics that you're playing out from childhood.

And that is a very important piece of the puzzle that cannot be skipped. So I just want to be clear that even though today I'm going to be talking about how to take all that work and make it into tangible results, I want to be really clear that that part can't be skipped over. So we have to go through this process where we are looking at.

our childhood, where we're looking at our parents, where we're looking at the things that contributed to who we are now, and understanding why we are where we are, right? And then on top of that, another really important piece that cannot be skipped over is really dealing with, acknowledging, and processing the emotions that are stored in your body and in your energy field that you have not addressed, right?

And many people are walking around with unacknowledged, unaddressed, Emotions that that part can't be skipped over either, so we can't go from A to Z. So what I'm talking about here when I'm talking about real results and the gap that I'm finding in the space, it is in the space after you have done this work of unraveling, untangling, and addressing the wounding from childhood and the emotions that you haven't addressed.

So I just want to be really clear on that because that we cannot go from like point A to like where I'm talking about now. So, and that's why I have the metamorphosis, right? So that you can address the things that you have not addressed yet. And that's just, it can't be skipped over. So I just want to say that because a lot of people go around thinking that they have addressed certain things because they know, for example, like How your mother was or how your father was, but you haven't gone through the part where you acknowledge how you actually feel, not how you think you're supposed to feel.

And there's a very big difference there. And I'm going to give you a quick example of this, just to illustrate what I'm talking about. Oh, well, my father was emotionally unavailable. And I, you know, now attract emotionally unavailable men. But I understand why he was emotionally unavailable. He had a lot of trauma.

He was really stressed with work. And like this was going on with him and my mom. So I understand why he was the way I was, well, the way he was. So, you know, now I just need to move past it. This is a very common way that people deal with the personal growth process is like we look at it from an intellectual level and we like say that we understand it intellectually, but you haven't actually allowed yourself to acknowledge the emotions that you felt as a child because now as an adult, you have a very different perspective.

You understand why you understand the circumstances, the situation. And on top of that, you still love the person, especially if it's like your mother. or father, but you haven't allowed yourself to address the four or five, six, seven year old version of you who is hurt and confused and quite frankly, completely traumatized by the way you were treated as a child.

So there has to be. Part of the journey where you allow yourself to acknowledge how you truly felt at that age. Right? So we can't skip that. And I just want to be really clear before I move forward. And again, that's where the metamorphosis comes in. And even if you think you've addressed certain things.

If you are still coming up against really deep patterns where, you know, you feel challenged or you feel like you can't get yourself emotionally out of certain spaces, then you probably have some more work to do there, right? So I just want to be clear on that. Now, what I'm going to be addressing today is the point that I have seen so many of my clients get to and the point that, you know, I've gotten to myself and I see people kind of spinning out.

in the personal growth healing space around is the point where you have acknowledged all of the things. You've done the work to look at the deeper patterns that you're playing out, the limiting beliefs that you have, the negative thoughts that you have about yourself, the patterns that you continue to go into all the time.

And then here's what happens. When these things come up again, because they will, right, just because you address it and acknowledge it, you did the breath work, you move through the energy, you move through the emotions, just because you did that doesn't mean that you snap your fingers and it magically goes away.

And I think that this is a misconception that a lot of people have about what it means to do the healing and personal growth work. It doesn't just go away. It's going to continue to come up. But then it's your job to have the wherewithal and the willingness and the dedication and the discipline to shift out of it.

And this is what I'm talking about. So here's the most common thing that I see with so many people, including myself. So I lived this. is that when these things come up again, like say, for example, you know, your pattern around your mother comes up again, where it's like all of a sudden you are triggered by something or you're replaying this pattern or you're feeling like you're not good enough or you're feeling stuck or, or, or, right?

Or you're feeling unsafe or you don't know how to move forward, whatever it is. What most people do is that they then go into the why. Why is this happening? Right? We think in our brains that if we figure out why it's happening, then we can somehow stop it. But that is not the case. Figuring out why so that you can fix it is just going to keep you spinning out in the same energy over and over again.

So you have to stop trying to figure out why when it comes up and you just have to stop doing it. You have to make a decision that every time that old line of thinking comes up, that old pattern comes up, that old feeling comes up, you have to stop it. That's the work. And that's what I'm going to be teaching in Real Results.

And this is the gap between doing the healing work. and seeing the results because if you don't know how to apply the healing work in each moment, shifting your energy, shifting your perspective and shifting your thoughts, then you are not applying the healing work and you're not going to see real results.

So you know, I have seen this as a gap in the healing space for a while now, where I'm like, okay, what is the thing here? Right? Because I see, and I've seen it with my clients, and I've walked my clients through this exact thing that I'm gonna be teaching in Real Results, right? Mostly my private clients, because we work really obviously closely together.

But they would always get to this point where it's like, okay, we've done the work. We know. what your stuff with your mom is. We know what the pattern was growing up. We know how you felt with your brother, whatever it is. But now we need to decide we're going to operate differently. And that's when we start to see the results is when you start to change how you're operating based on the knowledge that you received from the deeper work that you did.

Right? So this is the, the gap. The gap is that a lot of people think that if you do the breath work, you do the energy work, you do the journaling, you do all the things, then somehow you're not going to have to do anything else and all that shit is just going to magically disappear. And that's not how it works.

And I'm telling you from experience with myself and with other people, people are looking for. This like magic bullet or this like, you know, miracle pivotal time where you just like get pushed over the edge and everything changes. And that doesn't happen. Like, yes, there are moments where we quantum leap where we have huge energy shifts, where we have huge realizations, huge revelations.

But then we have to sustain those revelations. We have to sustain that. energy shift, and that's on you. No one else can do that for you. And this is where the radical responsibility comes in, because people tend to think that someone else is going to do it for them. And we have been heavily indoctrinated into a victim mentality as a society.

We think that there's a point that we have no power, that someone else is going to save us. And again, I'm not like saying that. Anybody listening is doing that. But what I'm saying is, as a collective, that mentality has been indoctrinated into us. It's all over the place. If you look on all marketing, all advertisements, the news, social media, it's all like, do this thing.

So that your problems go away, right? It's like outside of you somehow. And the truth and the reality is, is that it's not. It's you. You have to change and you have to decide you're going to change in every moment. And this is what Real Results is about. I'm going to show you how to fill that gap. I'm going to give you the very tangible applicable strategies and techniques to shift your energy and perspective in each moment so that your outer reality begins to reflect the inner state that you create.

Because that is where the results happen. The results don't happen from you, you know, just doing the deeper inner work. Like, yes, you will feel different. You will have a different perspective. But to get like those real expansive results and to continue to grow and shift and create more and more tangible, real results.

You have to apply this moment to moment. It's a moment to moment practice and I'm going to show you how to create your own moment to moment practice so that you start to see these results in your life. And this is stuff that I. Have practiced on my own, I've cultivated on my own and I know that it works and I'm gonna show you how to do it because this is the work, right?

And this is something that no one really talks about because, you know, I think one of the misconceptions in this transformation coaching space is that, you know, someone else is going to do it for you or this person has the thing that I need, right? And in a lot of ways, yes, there's nuance to this because obviously there's people that you resonate with.

Like if you're listening to this podcast, you obviously resonate with me. You know that there's information that I have that can help you. But again, it's up to you to apply it in a way that works for you. And that's what we're going to be doing in Real Results. So this is just so important because I feel so strongly about Everybody being able to really create the changes that they desire in their lives and to feel their power and know the power that you have to create those results.

So that's the crux of this program, right? Is looking at these different pieces of the personal growth process. Looking at the information that you already know, and then applying it, right? So we're going to go through the different patterns, you know, that you're aware of around like your mother wound and your father wound.

And then also your own stories and beliefs that you might not even be aware that you're subscribing to because half of the time, if I dig underneath. with my clients, we realize that like the decision they're making or the action they're taking or the thoughts that they're having are all wrapped up in a story that they have about themselves and the world that they're unknowingly subscribing to, right?

This is just really, really important to understand and this is what we're going to unravel in the program. So, It's going to be six weeks. I'm going to be teaching for five, and then there's going to be a Q& A at the end. And it's going to be one of those things where, like, you are finally going to feel like you can take this information and apply it moving forward.

Whether it's, you know, and it's going to apply in all the ways, right? Whether it's money, Whether it's business, whether it's your relationships, whether it's just how you feel within yourself, you're going to start to learn how to work with your own energy to feel completely different about your life.

And I'm, again, I'm telling you from experience because I've walked this and I've created this methodology based on the stuff that I've been practicing within myself. So if you want real results and you've done a lot of work, right? So this is not for the person who has not done any of the healing work yet, right?

So if you've done a lot of work, And you're still like, okay, well, I, I've noticed some changes. I feel different. Like, I see things differently, but there's something that's not clicking. And I really would like to experience actual, real, tangible things in my life from all of this work that I've done. Then this is for you.

And this is stuff that you're going to be able to take and apply for the rest of your life. So it's, it's really about creating a practice that is going to create momentum for you that eventually will become like the way that you operate. And then it'll be so much. easier for you moving forward to continue to grow because you won't have to go through these processes of like, Oh my gosh, is it this?

Is it that? Why am I stuck? Why am I challenged? Why am I still here? Why does this keep coming up? Like all that stuff will go away if you apply these principles. These are like very high level spiritual principles that I'm going to distill down for you so that you can. Get real results. So that is all about that.

And that's why I created it. And also because I'm constantly looking at just like all the noise that's on the internet. Like there's so many people. And you know, I think the personal growth, healing and coaching space is amazing because it's giving so many people an opportunity to make money just for being them, to share their wisdom, to share their truth, to express who they really are.

And for people to really get to the truth of who they are. And at the same time, there's also a lot of noise out there. And I'm like, very, um, what's the word? Like, I just have a, a high radar for stuff that is fluff. And I have no time for it. And I. don't like it. And there's a lot of fluff out there.

There's a lot of things that are like, Oh, like, just like visualize this or light this candle or whatever. And I'm not saying that those things can't be helpful, but I just want to like cut through all the shit and show you how to do this. You don't need anything. You don't need fucking affirmation. You don't need a candle.

You don't need anything other than your mind. And I'm going to show you how to use it to get real tangible results. So I'm super excited about this. It just feels very cut and dry to me, which is why If you notice all the branding I have around it is just black and white because I'm like, that's what this is.

It's black and white. There's nothing else. And like, yes, it's about energy, but it's really just about a very practical way to make use of the power that you have within your own being and within your own mind. So um, That's real results. I would love to have you there. And then also I'm offering the opportunity to bundle past lives and money and real results, which is kind of the perfect thing to do.

First of all, you'll save like 2, 500 if you do that. And then also they kind of go perfectly together and real results is going to start right after past lives and money is over. So it's just like a great way to go through fall having like a complete transformation. uplevel, energy shift, life altering time and go into 2024 as like a totally elevated version of yourself that gets real results.

So I'm sure you've all heard me talk about past lives and money, but it's where I show you how to shift. These very common past life archetypal energies that come up for women in business that literally come up for everyone, because we all came into this lifetime to shift these energies, so they literally come up for everybody, especially if you're running a business or you want to start one, or you want to like do the thing where you actually go out on your own and start making money just for being you, even if you don't know exactly what you're going to do yet.

This is so important to know and have this information. So I'm going to show you how to recognize Transcribed these energies when they're coming up and shift them so that you can make more money quickly, grow your business quickly, and just grow into yourself more quickly. Because this is just really important information to have.

Like when I look back, when I first started, if somebody told me about each one of these past life archetypal energies and how they show up. I feel like I would have moved so much more quickly because I would have understood what was happening instead of thinking that like I was just going crazy or I was so afraid or I was having anxiety.

Like no, there are these very clear things that come up for everyone and I'm going to show you how to shift them. And it's just such a great way to be in my world for the fall and have these two really powerful programs where you can grow, you can shift, and you can be in community with other women who are doing what you're doing.

So that's that. And then the other thing that I just wanted to talk about, and this is very much related to the real results thing, okay? Because these are things that have been on my heart for a long time. And just like things that I'm seeing in the space that... where my bullshit detector comes up, or just like places where I would like to offer my perspective and would like to offer like a higher perspective on certain things.

I notice in mentorship, people oftentimes don't even really understand like what the point of it is, right? Like maybe they come into. a mastermind or some kind of high level space. And it's like, okay, well, I have a business. I want to grow my business. I want to be around this person and I want to learn information.

But it's kind of like, it's still thinking about it from like, I don't want to say victim because that's like harsh, but it's almost like, okay, like, I don't know anything. So you show me what to do and I'll do it. And I think that that's like a very disempowered way to show up in any space. And listen, I'm not saying that like everybody's doing this.

I feel like these energetics show up at certain times, which is why I want to highlight them. I think that sometimes what can happen is instead of. a person and I noticed this with my own self, which is why I'm talking about it. Instead of someone having this idea of like, okay, I have a vision and I'm going to trust my vision and my intuition and listen to my guidance no matter what.

I know what I'm doing no matter what and I have a very strong level of trust within myself of where I'm going, what I'm meant to do and what I'm meant to share, but I'm just going to. ride with this person because A, I feel connected to their energy and I kind of know that we're meant to be together.

And that's like a very different energy than being like, okay, well, I'm just going to have this person answer all my questions and tell me if what I'm doing is okay. Like it's a very different frequency. And I had to learn this as well. Especially like in the beginning and even it's come up at certain times in the last year or so, where I've had mentors call me out or check me or be like, well, I don't think this is a very like empowered way of showing up, right?

It's almost like you're asking like, well, what are you asking here? Do you want like my permission? Do you want my approval? And these are things that I think we can. That can happen within the mentorship space with people not even being aware of it. So it's like instead of showing up as a leader and taking what is said in a container or is said by your mentor and running it through your own internal guidance system through your own intuition and then applying it in a way that works for you.

It's almost like people want like this cookie cutter way of doing something and they just want to do it. And then have the success and it doesn't work that way. And it's never worked that way for me. And I've never even wanted to do it that way. But I feel like there's an element of that in the space that it doesn't leverage the relationship in the way that it could be.

Because to me, mentorship is all about a relationship. You have heard me share, I have two private mentors. And because that's what I felt guided to do. Here's the thing. I feel like a lot of what people, the way that they think about this is like, well, do I really need this? Right? I had a call with one of my private clients the other day.

And we were talking about her continuing with private mentorship. And she's like, well, I'm not sure if I need this because, you know, I haven't been you know, plugging into Voxer or asking you questions that much. And it's like, that's not what it's about. And also it's not about need. And like, this is the thing that I always have come back to for myself is like, if I ever asked myself, do I really need this?

It's usually coming from a place of lack and scarcity. Because when you're saying, do I really need this? It's like, oh, well, could I get by without this? Could I try to do it without this? And the answer is, yeah, but usually that's coming from a place of lack and scarcity. And at the end of the day, it's about not wanting to spend money because you're in a place of lack and scarcity around money.

And I get that like, you know, not everyone's in the same place financially and we have to meet ourselves where we're at when it comes to investing in ourselves and investing in our businesses. But that kind of thinking is coming from a place of lack and scarcity. And I have always moved from desire.

Now, does that mean I don't have thoughts of lack and scarcity come up? Does that mean that I don't have thoughts of like, oh, wow, do I really need to be spending over 12K a month on mentorship? But then I say to myself. No, but A, the version of me that I desire to be is doing exactly what I'm doing. And B, I know that I was guided to do this.

The way that I'm doing it and there's a reason why and I'm going to trust that. And also, I have moved from like what I felt pulled or desire to do. And let's get clear, desire is really important to tap into because we have been taught that desire is somehow like a frivolous thing that you like deal with on the weekends.

But desire is actually your soul, your higher self pointing you in a direction. Um, So, the best way to decide if you should move forward with something is to ask yourself if I took the money out of it, would I desire for this person to be in my life, to be mentoring me for me to be having a high level relationship with this person?

Do I desire that? And if the answer is yes, then that's what you do. And that's how I've always moved. Even though that doesn't make sense financially, it doesn't make sense to the people who don't have businesses, it doesn't make sense to everyone who's subscribing to the old paradigm, to the old way of thinking, to like, oh, well, I'll do that when I have the money.

Well, guess what? You're never going to have the money if that's your mentality. Because to me, the way that I've made the money is by saying yes to the thing that I desired. And it's a very different way of thinking. And you don't know how many people I have in my DMs telling me, Oh my gosh, it's my dream to work with you.

Oh my gosh, when I have the money. And like, I just like, ignore that shit. Because I'm just like, that is you trying to plug into my energy. Trying to get me to talk to you, when you are not ready to resource yourself to actually step up and become the version of you that says yes to your desire. I think this is really important to understand because it is a new way of looking at things, right?

I did a post today about being an entrepreneur means you have to be willing to take risks and it means you have to be willing to do things in a way that no one's ever done them and you have to be willing for no one to understand what you're doing. You have to not need approval or permission from anyone else.

And that's scary. It's not for everyone. It's really not. And that's okay. And I always say to everyone, like. This shit is hard, if it were easy, everybody would do it. I'm not saying in a way of like, Oh my God, it's so hard. I'm saying it in a way of like, you have to require yourself to continue to blaze a new path and not need anyone else's permission or approval.

And I think that's sometimes where people can plug into mentorship, wanting their permission or approval or like, is this okay? And is this good enough? And that's not the frequency we want to bring to mentorship. And that's not the frequency I want in my private spaces or I want my mastermind. I want people who are leaders who already know where they're going.

And they just want to ride with me because they love my frequency. They love my energy. They know I have value to share. They love how I built my business. They love that I look at things through the lens of trauma because they know How non negotiable that is, like those are the people that I want in my spaces.

So I think it's really important to like check in with yourself and I do the same thing too. And I really in the past year have really shifted the way that I show up in mentorship because I've evolved as a leader. And now it's more like a meeting of the minds almost, or it's like, Oh, I'm curious. How are you thinking about this?

Or, Oh, I feel this energy shift and like, this is what I'm thinking, like, I would love your perspective on this. Or I had this great idea for this. I love your thoughts. Or it's, it's a conversation about leadership. You guys probably saw me share last weekend, I went to New York and I spent the day with Jocelyn who has been my mentor since the beginning.

And it was so powerful, A, because I was one of her first clients and like we've literally grown together. And the staying power that it takes to like ride with somebody like that, it says a lot because I don't really know anyone who's had the staying power that I've had in mentorship. And like, I know there's people, obviously, who have done long term stuff.

And like, there's people that I know who've been working with, um, my mentor, Jennifer, for five, six years or longer, whatever. So I know people do it. It takes something. It takes, like, being willing to invest and say yes to something that you know you're meant to do when you don't have a problem, when you're not excited, when everything is just neutral or whatever.

Being able to say yes when you don't have the certainty about what's going on, when there are shifts happening in your business, and you're not sure how everything's going to look. It's like, who are you then? And this is another thing that has come up with some of my clients is like, having stuff come up in their lives where, oh my gosh, business isn't going the way that it was before, or oh my gosh, this thing happened with my husband, or oh my gosh, like there was this shift.

And my... other business or whatever it is. And it's like, who are you then? Because if you say that you are committed to creating the vision that you know you're meant to create, does one thing happen and you're ready to throw it all out the window? Because that is like not staying power, right? Staying power means you're committed to your vision and what you desire to create, no matter what's going on in your life.

And one of the biggest things that I've learned this year is the ability to source a sense of safety and solidity within myself, no matter what is going on around me. Even if I have a bunch of clients drop off, even if I have other stuff going on in my life that requires me paying a lot of money, or even if it's not even about money, it's like, who are you in those moments where the universe serves up a challenge?

Right? Because that's the place that you're actually being invited to shift. That's the place where you're actually being invited to up level is when the universe presents a challenge and it looks like everything's crumbling and it looks like you don't know how things are going to work out. It's like, who are you in those moments?

Are you the person that's going to make a decision out of fear and contract and crumble and try to fix everything and start acting like you're in fight or flight? Or are you going to accept the invitation to rise to the occasion and continue to follow where you're being guided even if you don't know how it's going to turn out?

Because that's what it means to really run a successful business. And not only that, that's what it means to be a leader. And that's what it means to really honor the truth of who you are. It's all nice and good to do it when like, you're first starting out and you're excited. Or you make your first 10k, you make your first 20k.

Like, yay. Those are the times where it's easy. But it's like, who are you in the times when shit hits the fan? Are you ready to just give it all up? That is the part that I think is so important, and that's what I've learned this year because this year, like, I had a lot of challenges come up. I got into a car accident in January that really threw me for a loop and threw me into like this crazy anxiety period that I didn't.

I was not expecting because I don't have anxiety usually and it was a lot. And then, you know, there were certain things I did that didn't work out the way that I thought. I had a season where I had a lot of clients leave my world. And actually when that happened, that's when I decided to invest with Jocelyn even more.

And I didn't know what was going to happen. It wasn't certain. But I kept going because I knew that's what I was meant to do. And I'm not saying I was like, just like, Oh

yeah, this is what was like, are you going to make a decision out of fear? Are you going to make the decision that's aligned with your next level and the truth of who you are and walk through the fear? That's the difference. And that's really what it means to be a leader and to rise in mentorship. So I think so many people look at it like, Oh, well, what can this person do for me?

And then when my time is up, do I really need to continue? And Jennifer always says, She calls it eating all the peas on your plate and she actually talks about that as like a lack and scarcity thing where it's like, oh, well, if this is part of my package, but I'm not utilizing it to the best of my ability, do I really need that?

Should I really be doing this or should I be paying less money? And it's like, it's not about that. It's about you investing in yourself through this person, you investing in your business through this person, and knowing that money is infinitely abundant, that you are a source of abundance yourself. And you don't need to think that things are finite, that there's only so much and there's only so much to go around.

This is a program. It's not the truth. So when we operate from that space, then we are basically operating from an old program of lack and scarcity, which is not going to get you to where you want to go. And it's not the truth of who you are. So these are just some things that have been on my heart that I wanted to share and it's stuff that's come up in multiple places that I just wanted to address because I think it's very important to start to shift the perspective.

around what it means to be a leader. And if you say you're a leader, it's like, okay, well, you can, anyone can say they're a leader, but how are you showing up and who are you in these moments of challenge? And how do you take challenges as invitations and opportunities and really rise from them? And that's what it really means to be a leader, to be an entrepreneur, and to create the new paradigm.

It's like not operating from old programming. That's what it is. And it's being able to see that we're operating from old programming and to stop and to be brave and courageous enough to operate differently, even when everyone and everything around you tells you that that's not safe. And then you need to be able to create, cultivate a sense of safety within yourself so that you can operate from that new paradigm.

And then on the other side of that, you get to reap the rewards, right? Because there's always rewards on the other side when you follow the truth of who you are and when you accept the invitations to grow instead of contracting in fear, which is the old paradigm, which is what most people would do. But I guarantee you, if you're listening to this, you're not most people.

If you are in a place in your life where you feel like you need to do something different or you're at a crossroads or you're like, it feels like everything's crumbling, it's like, sit with it and be like, what is your invitation? What are you being invited into right now? And I guarantee you, you know exactly what that is, even if you're afraid of it.

I'm going to leave it there. I've talked for 40 minutes, but real results. Come join me. It's going to be epic. I guarantee you there is nothing like this being taught on the internet because no one has this perspective and no one is able to apply these spiritual principles in the way that I'm going to teach you.

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